How to Marry a Ghost

How to Marry a Ghost, by Hope McIntyre

OK, I was already starting to hate this heroine when she began telling me how neurotic and special and needy she was. But when she explained how she made her perfectly innocent fiance take up jogging in the mornings so that a) she could have her precious alone time and b) even though she *totally* loved and accepted him just the way he was, so he could lose 10 pounds to fit into his wedding suit AND described it as a noble compromise on HER part -- that was when the book hit the wall.